Check Lists

Listening to NPR as I wash dishes.   A Harvard doctor explains how using a checklist can prevent errors and save lives in hospitals.  I’m thinking about FLYLADY and my  mother’s to-do lists and the clipboard we used to check the instruments in the engine room every hour when I worked as a deckhand and checking props and pre-set costumes before every show…

Spa Castle. Ahhhhhhhh!

New Year, New Calendar

I’m going over my new calendar and thinking about commitments.   My Kid will finally be taking a dance class again and is registered for indoor soccer.  I am considering some workshops and new projects for myself.

But, I have the same old New Years resolutions of wanting to do more exercising, more cooking, more cleaning, more volunteering, and more writing…

It is the season of my annual online search for MFA programs to which I do not apply.

The Post 9/11 Decade

It’s New Years Eve.  So much has been said about this decade that for lack of a better name is being called the post 9/11 decade. Remember Seattle’s public Millennium Celebrations that got cancelled because of a terrorist plot.  Remember the sight gag on late night TV, Seattle’s New Year’s Celebration as a few guys in an empty room sitting on folding chairs. In the year 2000 my beautiful daughter was born, one of those auspicious millennium dragon babies.  We bought a house in Seattle.  And then the tech boom ended.  And then we moved to New York.  And then 9/11 happened the week after we discovered the sphere fountain in the World Trade Center Plaza was a good place to take our toddler.  Lafayette Avenue Presbyterian Church Playgroup.  And then we went to Nebraska to introduce my baby to her great-grandparents.  And then there was the Anthrax scare so I didn’t send Christmas Cards from New York to let everyone know we we had moved.  And then my baby could talk. Music for Aardvarks.  And then my little girl went to preschool at the Dillon Center.   STREB  kid action with Fabio.  Shi Chi Go San.  And then my little girl went to pre-K in Manhattan.  And then my little girl went to Kindergarten in Brooklyn.   And then I spent two months on the jury for a murder trial.  And then my little girl was in 1st grade.  And then my little girl was in 2nd Grade. Shi Chi Go San.  First Holy Communion.  FIRST Lego League.  Brownie Girl Scouts.  And then my little girl was in 3rd grade. The Husband changed jobs four times in one year.  The New Economy.   AYSO Soccer.  And now my little girl is in 4th grade.  Barack Obama is the President of the United States.  And now it is turning into 2010.   We have a new hamster. Whoooosh!

Merry Christmas

Christmas Nativity Tableau

Happy Happy Friend From Montana

Yeah!  Happy Happy nothing to prove.  Friend from Seattle who grew up in Montana–Hey!  I grew up in Montana.  No expectations.  Drink wine :)  Put ornaments on the Christmas tree :)  Eat dinner:)

Happy Happy Happy

Time for bed:)

Tiana the White Princess

While watching the new Disney animated movie, The Princess and the Frog at the Ziegfeld Theatre, and then photographing my daughter next to various Disney Princesses, all of whom were at the Roseland Ballroom afterwards, as part of The Princess and the Frog Ultimate Disney Experienceit occurred to me that the “finally a Black Disney Princess” princess might become known to the preschool set as “The White Princess”.  I hope it happens in our “finally a Black President” Obama in the White House America.

Princess Tiana does spend much of the movie as a frog, which might entice some more little boys into theaters.  However, she has 3 -count them three- iconic ball gowns in addition to a pretty great 1920′s fantasy sequence beaded number.  I know one dress is kind of blue and the finale dress has some green layers, but the dresses are white. White like a wedding dress, white like a debutante dress, white like she is the white princess because her dress is white.

Maybe she’ll become known as the green princess or the frog princess, or the cooking princess, or the princess with the strapless dress with a blue sash, but the dress she wore at the Ultimate Disney Experience was white.  A Southern Belle Princess, she’s a gift to the city of New Orleans.  Also the music and story seem structured for an easy transition to the stage and I expect that soon I’ll see banner on a bus announcing the stars of Disney’s The Princess and the Frog on Broadway.

My daughter became intimate with the Disney Princesses in preschool.  It was a social phenomenon.  All the girls in her pre-K class loved princesses and each had her favorite.  My kid chose Belle from Beauty and the Beast, because her favorite color was yellow. It was a simple transition from her favorite Wiggle, Greg, who was also yellow. Aurora, Sleeping Beauty, was her next favorite princess and Cinderella came in third. They are available often as a trio, the pink princess, the yellow princess and the blue princess.  If one member of the trio on the pencil case, or whatever licensed item was in question, was Snow White, my child was not interested.

Pink. Yellow. Blue. White. Green.

Say Yes to the dress.

Being a princess is about the ball gown and Princess Tiana has plenty to choose from.  She will not become one of the wallflowers like Pocahontas or Mulan.  Worthy role models both, but what girl can have fun in the constricting folk costumes they wear. Jasmine wears pants, so she can turn cartwheels if she feels like it and Ariel, The Little Mermaid, can swim.  I fail to see the appeal of Sleeping Beauty.  She seems boring.  When my daughter’s friends pretended to be her, they lay down and closed their eyes. But, she does have long blonde hair and a dress that is the favorite color of a large percentage of the little girl demographic.

Princess Tiana, the only Disney animated princess to debut during my daughter’s childhood, is destined to become a dress-up favorite.  Her ball gown is big, the kind you can run in, the kind you can spin around in until you fall on the floor in and then get up without assistance.  That’s something to be desired in formal attire.  It’s practical and beautiful, like the American princess who wears it.

Kathie lives with her Handsome Prince and her Little Princess in Brooklyn.  

This is an original NYC Moms Blog.

Production Postmortem

The meeting started with a viewing on a laptop of some really great still photographs of women clowns on stage by a photographer who was there at the theater.

What was clear in the photographs is that we’re fascinating people every one of us and as a group we are amazing.

Creative process, generating material, and camaraderie were barely mentioned during the table discussion.  That’s what I like to talk about because that’s what I find fascinating.  But, no matter, those kinds of conversations too easily become wide-ranging and unruly.  We had a limited amount of time to cover the topics at hand so we talked about production tasks and rehearsal schedules.   I have new insight into how I will approach my work with this group next time.

Tasty savory crackers and yummy chocolate holiday treats gave the Clown Axioms postmortem discussion a holiday party feel.

President Obama made an important speech accepting the Nobel Prize for Peace today.

In my  own small life I wrote a blog post and went to a meeting with the clown troupe.

Two friends’ shows today

Well, first of all there was the 9 am soccer game with the trophy distribution picnic afterward…

The Husband, My Kid and I went up town to see  the matinee of Spacestation 1985 at the Tank Theater on 45th street because one of my friends was one of the puppeteers.

In the evening I went with my friend from Seattle to see Heidi Schreck’s play Creature at the Ohio Theater in Soho.  There was a party afterwards because it was closing night.  We stayed.  There were people to talk to and I had just enough to say to make small talk (about that show I was in at La MaMa last month) so I didn’t feel like I was just a mom…

I feel comfortable in theaters.